Hello, Im so stressed out rite now..because after 2 years relationship with my boyfriend, he has been very over protected and jelous if I going out with my friends..specifically, my others male friends..he doesn%26#039;t allowed me to wear pointed shoes! and last nite, he nearly smack me on the face because I went out with my friends without telling him..Rite now im so phobia whenever I remember of him..while he feels nothing, he thought that he has teach me to become his good and loyal future wife..What should I do? I cant run away from him because we live near and study at the same university..even he has my home phone number..
What Should I Do? I Have jealous psiko boyfriend..?
Diana..this is what i think u should do..sit down and talk to him about the way he treats u..tell him first about the good things that u love about him..but then tell him that he needs to trust u when u go out with your friends or if u just go out by yourself..(shopping or grabbing a bite to eat)..tell him in a kind way that if he keeps this up..u won%26#039;t put up with it cause u want him to be part of your life and not your whole life..if it gets messy where he does hit u....stand up for yourself and have him arrested then gey a restraining order on him..its that simple sweety....please please don%26#039;t be one of those gals that end up in a abuses relationship...
Reply:Smack him!!
Reply:Diana,if he%26#039;s like this now what%26#039;s he going to be like after
you get married? You%26#039;re obviously scared and he mentioned he
has already almost hit you. Break up with him,and make sure you%26#039;re not alone with him when you do it. I suggest a letter,but if you have to do it in person make sure someone else is there at the time. Make it clear it%26#039;s over. Change
your number.
If he refuses to accept your decision and harasses you,report him to the police. Whatever you do,don%26#039;t allow yourself to become trapped in an abusive relationship with this control freak.
Reply:What Should I Do?.....leave him
Reply:okay, you are letting someone other than your parents dictate how you are going to dress? I don%26#039;t think so. You need to tell his parents and yours that you are ending this relationship. Change your phone number, transfer to another university if you have to, just get the hell away from this guy. You already know in your heart of hearts that he is not the one for you. Sheesh.
Reply:tell im what u think:)
Reply:Leave him and contact the police NOW
Reply:Be calm while you do it and dump him. He is not the man 4 u.
Reply:just tell him to leave u alone or change home phones or smack him round the face or talk things over with him kk
Reply:Leave him, he is clearly affecting your spelling and grammar.
Reply:i say end it or say a break is needed untill you can decide if you want to be with some one that is going to treat you that way. my ex got jelous and violent threw stuff at me and wasted my car. so i ended it. it wasn%26#039;t worth it it never is. i think you know that
Reply:For starters, put yourself in his shoes a min. If he were doing you the same way you are doing him, going out without telling him, having male friends. He probably feels threatened, I would. You need to think on how you feel, because it looks to me like it%26#039;s already over. When there is no trust or communication, what is there left cause love alone isn%26#039;t going to cut it.
Reply:He is a serious abuser and you should get away from him as soon as possible. Most cities have people in law enforcement and volunteer organizations that can help you. He%26#039;s a controlling person working his way up to seriously damaging you. Perhaps the university has a domestic abuse program...or, put a restraining order on him, file assault charges. You are in deep danger.
Reply:RUN to the nearest crisis center on campus!!!! They will help you through this problem regardless that you are both students there. You are in an abusive relationship that is really heading for more BIG trouble. I will pray for you hon! I have been through this type of relationship and can tell you that you need professional help from staff at the crisis center to deal with it. Do not stay, get over there now!
Reply:if he is being abusive to you now and is a control freak. how much further will he go if you ever marry him. as soon as you can, immediately if at all possible, get away from him and change your phone number. good luck.
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